Parents who have children may find it challenging whenever traveling for work or for a business trip. The time factor does not really matter, what matters a lot is the fact that you are not close to each other. The feeling of the kid being left by the parent is mutual. Most of the times you can do nothing about it, but with the following tips, you can make those trips less stressful for your family. Understand the ideal time to inform your child about your leaving. The age of the child and his temperament should guide you. Preschoolers and toddlers don’t figure out the concept of time and even some lower primary kids find it hard to differentiate days from weeks. Therefore it is advisable to just tell them just a few days’ notice. Since older kids don’t rely much on their parents, they are less vulnerable to the traveling parents as compared to younger kids. However, once you realize that you have to leave instantly, ensure that you let your child know immediately and stay as calm as possible.
Ensure the child knows when you are leaving and where you will be going. The child should most importantly know when you will be back. For young kids, they may not figure out the months, weeks or days of the week as they appear on the calendar. It would be great for the child to know where you will be and assure her that you will be safe. Older kids can find out from the internet or from the map by themselves. Kids like to be promised if they will be in safe hands while you are away. Make sure you discuss the place the child will stay when you are traveling. The normal routine of the child should be adhered to and not changed as it can disrupt the kid’s life. Let the babysitter know what is expected of her when you are away.
By so doing, you will reduce the separation anxiety. Once the child watches the video tape, it can soothe her to have a good sleep. Some of the harsh goodbyes that can do more harm than good include sneaking away, acting anxiously, prolonging the departure or even showing how guilt you are. Daily check-in and chats can make your child less stressful and also giving her time to voice her concerns if any and discuss. It’s good to stay in touch but with limited access. It is advisable to show the babysitter or whoever is taking care of the child that you trust her completely. Make your child that she is important to you by bring souvenirs to her and sharing your experiences with her.
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